every gals dilemma

first of all on a formal opening, ahhmm ahmmm i would like to thank stuti for making me think about this topic.
so the story begins...... a girl meets a guy, they become friends, they start some innocent flirting sessions, things get a bit serious, the girl likes the guy, the guy likes the girl. he is not ready to ask her out, scared well dunno( cant understand what they think. girl wants the guy to ask her out first, she is waiting waitng and waitng. nothing happens and she thinks of an action plan. she does evry possible thing to get his attention, talks about how she likes the way he styles his hair, talks about he is so sweet to her etc etc. finally, the guy things that this is the right time to pop the question and ........................... curtains down.
evrything changes. till yesterday she wanted him to make the first move and suddenly when he does that, she says no. well this was expected. thats why i called it evry gals dilemma coz its so predictable. can nebody explain me the theory behind this " dilemma phenomenon". waiting for ur comments.

MY FIRST TIME

This felt good. My very first introduction to this ultra-techo world. THANKS A MILLION MEENAKSHI, there are so many many things that i am grateful about to this girl. like minded, good natured, not a pakaaao !!! she's a doll and well, i hope she remains so. it was very tough to find a 'real' person in my present college. i was in so much awe to b here, but these days its not the same me. i feel i've lost myself. lost myself in the web of so many emotions. some necessary, some extremely unnecessary, the just out-of-curiosity ones. there was a moment when i thot i'd lose myself. i didnt want to let go of my mad mad self. i was damn happy the way i was. i wanted to and stil want to change, as in improve and polish my originalities, not make a new person altogether. people here r so fake. some soooo indifferent, indifferent people r there just everywhre!!! how can their conscience not keep ringing in their mind??? mine does, all the time... and now i'm feeling the urge to be bad... real bad, like selfish and alli tried, i'm trying because its for my own good. i'm getting pressurized coz i want just the opposite of what my mind thinks is rite. and i know i can let go in these areas... i am and i will try not to make myself feel miserable just because of social appreciation, bull-shit!!!! huggoo log sabke sab. i know just the mantra for the time being>> NARAYAN NARAYAN. how does it matter ??? hey kiddo, loosen up, life's there to live, not worry about what others think. So... so... what the **** ???

hello

hey mink
thanks for appreciating my effort to gather my friends nature in one. well, aise waise kam nahi chalega. mere bare me bhi likhna padege. just the way i have written about u all. waitin. and see i posted on ur blog!!!

my friends

the title may seem as if i am writing a school composition or an essay, well thats not true. i was thinking of another title but no adjective could appropriately suit my friends. anything that i would think of would seem to be far less than their importance. so i thought of leeping it simple.

when i say my friends im talking about four people, aks, viu, sushi n nids. its jus a few months that we know each other, but the bond seems like ages old. there is no special pact or set of rules between us, but we understand and abide by each other. all of us belong to the same school of thought and hence it becomes easy to gel together. we make it a ritual to keep in touch though our personal lives are equally taxing.

there is so much of anonimity surrounding us, but yet when you see some resembling face you tend to feel happy, but when i see my friends i am overjoyed, it is jus that i dont jump around in public( lest people will think im crazy).

so cheers to our friendship and cheers to the spirit of our friendship. psst a small piece of advice to all close friends, never let anything come between your friendship. no matter what the situation is your friend will always be with you.

jealousy kills

when i say jealousy kills i dont mean in the real sense but it kills relationships, sometimes even before forming one! we see jealousy between friends, collegues, partners and sometimes between acquaintences also. but have we ever thought why does jealousy arise?
there is one major reason for jealousy and that is "ego". ego alters a persons thinking and sometimes hampers his social well being. in other cases it arises due to infiriority complex and negative self image. people think that if they are unable to handle some work no one else can do that. and lastly in many cases it is due to over confidence. when you are over confident you think that none can be better than you. but this way u underestimate people and are caught in your own web.
hence my only advice is " just be grounded" no matter who you are or what you have achieved. in the long run humility is what matters. never take people for granted. maintain relationships in a healthy way. love people irrespective of what they have done to you. when i say all the above moralistic sentences i would also like to add that, when you do all the things right, spare some time and also think about yourself. be competative but in a nice way. excel, but take along people in this journey. friends i am sure all of you agree with me. waiting for your humble comments.